138 - Lessons Learned
Lessons Learned – Episode #138
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Lessons learned by newly weds when it comes to wedding planning.
If it can be delegated, do it
Hiring Pros
Be more patient with your fiancé
Stress less and let go
Things will happen
Do it because you want not because everyone else is doing it
Décor, dress, traditions
Eat in private
Dinner while signing docs or before the reception, food will go cold
Schedule alone time during the day 10-15mins
Don't be fooled by Pinterest weddings
Most are actually styled shoots
Incredibly expensive
Be flexible with timeline
Be ok with letting go of things, garter toss
Don't stay to clean, guests are waiting for you to leave
Don't compare your wants to what is in trend
Learn to say no or delegate, someone, to do it for you
Take breaks from planning when needed
One nonwedding planning date
Being realistic about the budget
Don't pick your bridal party until 6 mos before wedding
Pick people who are willing and able to help you
Don't take on too many projects
DIY – Time, skill, finances
RSVPs, check in with them, phone, text, and email
Number RSVP Cards
Not everyone remembers to write their names on them
Wedding website with lots of info
Plan ahead for clean up
Checking local events prior to wedding date selection
The Music and the vibe are what people really remember
Photography and videography are the most important vendors you choose so don't rush that decision
Don't spend too much on consumables because you won't really be able to resell or re use most of it. (Rent)
Prioritize and put it in the calendar
Designate someone to be ready to take care of last minute hiccups
Pamper yourself for a few days before.
Take some time off, even just a few days
Discuss what is most important as a couple
Food truck…outside vendor
Set a budget early so you can shift earlier and do budget check ups
Vent with other brides helps to refocus and feel like you aren't alone
Spend time nonwedding time with friends and bridal party
Detailed oriented friend
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