161 - Planning a Second Wedding

Planning a Second Wedding – Episode #161

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We never get married expecting the marriage not to work. But sometimes you find yourself getting remarried. So, when you do we have some “planning a second wedding” tips for you!

• If you have children, tell them first–no matter what their ages.
• Budgeting is very important since you now most likely have mortgages and kids.
• It's ok to wear white or red or blue…it's up to you!
• The veil, on the other hand, is a first marriage thing as what it stands for is purity and being “untouched”.
• Traditions and interests that suit you.
• Traditional, nontraditional, or throw a surprise wedding!
• Don't talk about the past or what's gone wrong, focus on the now and the future together.
• Involve your kids, if you have them, in your wedding:
• Let them stand up for you.
• Greeting guests, handing out programs, attend the guest book, and/or usher.
• Include them in your vows, make it a group exchange. Give them rings or bracelets as a symbol.
• Let them help you plan i.e. cake tasting!
• If small they can be ring bearers and flower girls.
• Create the kids “signature drink”.
• Create first look moments
• Celebrate as if it were your first.
• You'll need a divorce decree or a death certificate to file for a new marriage license.
• You deserve and should take a honeymoon!
• Premarital counseling is highly recommended.
• The MOH still has the same responsibilities as well as the wedding party. They may be a little different depending on what the couple decides to do.
• A bridal shower is perfectly fine. It may be more of a non-traditional style though.
• You can register, for things you want and need but don't expect your guests to give gifts.
• Figure out the “legals”, prenups, name changes, previous marriages are settled.
• Second marriage for the bride, she should use her legal name on the invitation instead of using a maiden name.
• Having your dad walk you down the aisle for the second time is completely fine as long as you are both comfortable doing so.
• Make this wedding different from the first.
• When it comes to the reception, really do it up however you want.
• You are probably aware but your parents aren't required to pay for anything but they may want to.

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