138 - Lessons Learned

Lessons Learned – Episode #138

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Lessons learned by newly weds when it comes to wedding planning.

If it can be delegated, do it

Hiring Pros

Be more patient with your fiancé

Stress less and let go

Things will happen

Do it because you want not because everyone else is doing it

Décor, dress, traditions

Eat in private

Dinner while signing docs or before the reception, food will go cold

Schedule alone time during the day 10-15mins

Don't be fooled by Pinterest weddings

Most are actually styled shoots

Incredibly expensive

Be flexible with timeline

Be ok with letting go of things, garter toss

Don't stay to clean, guests are waiting for you to leave

Don't compare your wants to what is in trend

Learn to say no or delegate, someone, to do it for you

Take breaks from planning when needed

One nonwedding planning date

Being realistic about the budget

Don't pick your bridal party until 6 mos before wedding

Pick people who are willing and able to help you

Don't take on too many projects

DIY – Time, skill, finances

RSVPs, check in with them, phone, text, and email

Number RSVP Cards

Not everyone remembers to write their names on them

Wedding website with lots of info

Plan ahead for clean up

Checking local events prior to wedding date selection

The Music and the vibe are what people really remember

Photography and videography are the most important vendors you choose so don't rush that decision

Don't spend too much on consumables because you won't really be able to resell or re use most of it. (Rent)

Prioritize and put it in the calendar

Designate someone to be ready to take care of last minute hiccups

Pamper yourself for a few days before.

Take some time off, even just a few days

Discuss what is most important as a couple

Food truck…outside vendor

Set a budget early so you can shift earlier and do budget check ups

Vent with other brides helps to refocus and feel like you aren't alone

Spend time nonwedding time with friends and bridal party

Detailed oriented friend

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